Walk into any lesbian bar and you'll find some beer-drinking hotties debating the existence of scissoring. Someone who is bisexual, omnisexual, heterosexual, asexual, or of any other sexuality, could enjoy, in theory, sex acts labeled 'lesbian sex acts.'įor the purposes of this article, we are defining 'lesbian sex' as sex between two (or more) non-men of any sexual orientation exploring their bodies together for the sake of pleasure. Because again: The only thing that makes someone a lesbian is that they self-identify as lesbian. Second, it implies that everyone engaging in certain sex acts or with certain bodies or gender(s) is a lesbian, which is inaccurate. So any non-binary person, transwoman, agender, and a gender-expansive person who claims the label 'lesbian' can have lesbian sex-not just cisgender women. Lesbian is not defined as cisgender women interested in cisgender women, but as non-man who loves, dates, and fuck other non-man. Why? Well, for starters, it suggests that only cis-gendered women get to participate in lesbian sex, which is untrue. Most commonly, the phrase is used as a porn search term to help people find content featuring two (or more) cisgender women.īut this is not an accurate conceptualization of lesbian sex.

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